Comments on: A Woman’s Perspective on Relationship Game http://sexgodmethod.com/blog/foreplay/199/a-womans-perspective-on-relationship-game/ Sex and dating advice for men by the author of The Sex Revolution Handbook Mon, 21 May 2012 21:46:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: M http://sexgodmethod.com/blog/foreplay/199/a-womans-perspective-on-relationship-game/comment-page-1/#comment-2242 M Sat, 16 Dec 2006 16:37:37 +0000 http://sexrevolutionblog.com/?p=199#comment-2242 Silver and Spirit Fingers, Thank you for the good replies, that guy was mean........Yikes. I feel better now and Men are not just sex for me, quality time, good conversation, good sex and and intimacy (even if it does not last) are what drive me to spend time with any guy. I am just as challenged by the game as everyone else, but I enjoy it. M Silver and Spirit Fingers, Thank you for the good replies, that guy was mean……..Yikes.

I feel better now and Men are not just sex for me, quality time, good conversation, good sex and and intimacy (even if it does not last) are what drive me to spend time with any guy. I am just as challenged by the game as everyone else, but I enjoy it.
M

]]> By: Spirit Fingers http://sexgodmethod.com/blog/foreplay/199/a-womans-perspective-on-relationship-game/comment-page-1/#comment-2176 Spirit Fingers Fri, 15 Dec 2006 16:21:44 +0000 http://sexrevolutionblog.com/?p=199#comment-2176 Anon, lose the bitterness. You wouldn't tell a guy who posted a field report to "go for girls below his league," so why are you posting that here? Granted, looks are important for a girl to get a guy to sleep with her. However, once she already has him, holding on to him is largely a matter of her game and sexual skills. If you look at a girls who have the most successful relationship lives, they are not always the most physically attractive. Of course, they usually have at least average looks, in order to get the guys in the first place. But, being stunningly beautiful does NOT automatically equal having a happy relationship with a great boyfriend for a girl. Often, girls who are super-hot but have no relationship or sexual skills will be able to hook up with the guys they want, but will not be able to keep them. The guys get bored -- you can only get so much mileage out of looks alone before you need another girl to excite you. To create permanent attraction, a girl needs sexual skills/game just like we do. Anon, lose the bitterness. You wouldn’t tell a guy who posted a field report to “go for girls below his league,” so why are you posting that here?

Granted, looks are important for a girl to get a guy to sleep with her. However, once she already has him, holding on to him is largely a matter of her game and sexual skills.

If you look at a girls who have the most successful relationship lives, they are not always the most physically attractive. Of course, they usually have at least average looks, in order to get the guys in the first place. But, being stunningly beautiful does NOT automatically equal having a happy relationship with a great boyfriend for a girl.

Often, girls who are super-hot but have no relationship or sexual skills will be able to hook up with the guys they want, but will not be able to keep them. The guys get bored — you can only get so much mileage out of looks alone before you need another girl to excite you. To create permanent attraction, a girl needs sexual skills/game just like we do.

]]> By: me http://sexgodmethod.com/blog/foreplay/199/a-womans-perspective-on-relationship-game/comment-page-1/#comment-2068 me Thu, 14 Dec 2006 03:23:25 +0000 http://sexrevolutionblog.com/?p=199#comment-2068 OUCH........that hurt and I think you you are right. No matter, he may have had a big dick and pretty eyes and a hot tub, but I got from him what I wanted. Leagues and being beneath him are part of the game, and it is true that men can fuck any one who batts thier eyelashes at them, this only makes it easier for women to play the game and get what they want. There are many who would believe like me, give game, get game. M OUCH……..that hurt and I think you you are right. No matter, he may have had a big dick and pretty eyes and a hot tub, but I got from him what I wanted.

Leagues and being beneath him are part of the game, and it is true that men can fuck any one who batts thier eyelashes at them, this only makes it easier for women to play the game and get what they want.

There are many who would believe like me, give game, get game.

M

]]> By: silver http://sexgodmethod.com/blog/foreplay/199/a-womans-perspective-on-relationship-game/comment-page-1/#comment-2042 silver Wed, 13 Dec 2006 17:12:05 +0000 http://sexrevolutionblog.com/?p=199#comment-2042 That first comment is really out of line, and it says more about the angry little boy who posted it than anything else. I'd guess that unlike him, the man she was asking about actually has things going on in his life other than PU. Second, props to Dan for giving her sound advice. "Leave her better than you found her" includes all women, all the time. Silver That first comment is really out of line, and it says more about the angry little boy who posted it than anything else. I’d guess that unlike him, the man she was asking about actually has things going on in his life other than PU.

Second, props to Dan for giving her sound advice. “Leave her better than you found her” includes all women, all the time.

Silver

]]> By: Anon http://sexgodmethod.com/blog/foreplay/199/a-womans-perspective-on-relationship-game/comment-page-1/#comment-2009 Anon Wed, 13 Dec 2006 01:53:10 +0000 http://sexrevolutionblog.com/?p=199#comment-2009 "I was a slut and I enjoyed every minute of the night, but now does this mean that because I slept with him on the first date that he is done with me?" That's a myth. Putting out on the first date does not affect whether a guy wants to see you again. Whether a guy wants to see you again depends on how attractive you are and how good in bed you are relative to other girls he has had. If you were Ms. Universe and rocked his world like no other, you bet he'd call ASAP to see if you're free the next night, the night after, and the night after that. The harsh reality is that he isn't contacting you because he feels he can do better. Why should he waste his time fucking you again if he feels he can spend his time snagging better ass? No amount of calling or emailing will get him into any type of relationship with you. Sure, he might call you at the last second for backup sex once or twice if his other hotter girls flake on him that day, but don't expect anything else. My advice is to go for AFC guys who are in your league or slightly below your league. They will be grateful for you because they can't do better. “I was a slut and I enjoyed every minute of the night, but now does this mean that because I slept with him on the first date that he is done with me?”

That’s a myth.

Putting out on the first date does not affect whether a guy wants to see you again. Whether a guy wants to see you again depends on how attractive you are and how good in bed you are relative to other girls he has had.

If you were Ms. Universe and rocked his world like no other, you bet he’d call ASAP to see if you’re free the next night, the night after, and the night after that.

The harsh reality is that he isn’t contacting you because he feels he can do better. Why should he waste his time fucking you again if he feels he can spend his time snagging better ass?

No amount of calling or emailing will get him into any type of relationship with you. Sure, he might call you at the last second for backup sex once or twice if his other hotter girls flake on him that day, but don’t expect anything else.

My advice is to go for AFC guys who are in your league or slightly below your league. They will be grateful for you because they can’t do better.

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