Generally guys are too timid when touching girls. This stems from the fact that most guys are not getting enough high quality sex — unless you have the confidence that sexual mastery brings, you will always have anxiety and fear associated with touching girls. To overcome this, you must consciously push past your fears and always touch her MORE than you think you should.

A good example of this is when you first meet a girl. Avoid the distant, formal, business-like handshake at all costs. When you shake her hand, pull clasp her hand in both of yours and pull her close to you. Look into her eyes and smile — make it clear that this is not a formal or “acquaintance” handshake.

The smile here is very important. You want to make your “handshake” have a sexual vibe right off the bat. In order to do this, you also need a warm, friendly smile to make sure she feels comfortable. Dazzle her with a smile right off the bat combined with warm, sexual eye contact and you’ll be ahead of the game before you even start.

Whenever you see a girl for the second time, you should never greet her with a handshake. Go straight for the hug. If she sticks out her hand, ignore it and just hug her. It doesn’t matter if she is a friend or a potential girlfriend — handshakes between people who know each other reek of uncomfortableness and asexuality. Hugging her, on the other hand, will attract her because it shows balls (Dominance), one of the four traits of a great lover.

Check out STR8UP’s perspective on this on sosuave.net:

I have always been accustomed to shaking hands with a person when I meet them, male or female. This is pretty much standard protocol, but recently I was introduced to girl by one of my female friends and I decided to change it up.

When the new girl put out her hand for a handshake, I felt kinda awkward that I had just hugged one girl and I was going to shake hands with another, so I said fukk it and went for the hug instead of the handshake.

After I did it for the first time I thought to myself, “hmmmm…..this could be a great way to build instant rapport”.

Last night a few girls that I know stopped by my house before we hit the clubs. The two girls that I know walked in first and I gave them both hugs. The next one I had met once before, and she went for the handshake which I “rejected” and went for the hug. As the other two girls walked in the door each one stuck out their hand and I did the same thing.

Not sure how much replacing the handshake with a hug can help, but I’m pretty certain it isn’t going to work against you in most cases.