Originally posted by Girl With a One Track Mind

He’s fit. He certainly is.

Tall, muscular physique. Agreed.

A nice arse: well rounded. That’s true.

Good strong features and a full head of hair! Yup.

You want him. Well, I wouldn’t say no.

You do. Come on look at him: he’s perfect. He’s OK, yes.

You, him: it’d be great. Let’s not jump to conclusions.

He’d be ideal, and you know it. I don’t think so!

Go on. Seize the day! Look, I don’t even know him.

Quick, before it’s too late! OK, enough already.

Tick tock. Shut up.

You’re running out of time. I’m not listening.

Yes, you are. Lately you’ve been listening a lot. Well, I’m not listening now. Lalalalalala.

Come on! You’re ripe! Do it! Shutupshutupshutup.

Oh, but you are. You’ve said so yourself. Your periods have never been as regular: every 28½ days you’re in synch with the moon for fuck’s sake, now’s the time! I’m not ready.

Who says? You’re 34 and you’re at a good place in life. The time is now! No, it’s not; I’m not ready yet.

What about the fact that you look at guys, imagining the combination of your features. You can’t tell me that’s not meaningful. It isn’t meaningful.

Ah, but you look at babies in the street and your heart pangs. I’m telling you, if you even hint at Baby Hunger

You said it. Look, fuck off, alright?

Go on: get fertilised! You know you want to. It’s not as simple as that. Anyway, I’m not ready for children yet.

But you want them, don’t you? And look: see how you’re staring at his crotch and imagining what his cock would feel like - that’s a tell-tale sign.Yeah, a sign that I wouldn’t mind fucking him.

No. It’s a sign that you want his babies!!! Oh for fuck’s sake. No it’s not. I’m just feeling horny.

Horny because you want his sperm!!! No. Horny because I want an orgasm.

But your orgasm is linked to wanting his babies!No. My wanting an orgasm is not connected to my wanting his children. It’s connected to the fact that I’m horny and need some release. Anyhow, I don’t even know his name for fuck’s sake - why would I want his kids?

Because you want to have children. That might be true. But I don’t want his children. Anyway, I want a relationship first.

Aha! So you do want them?! And? So fucking what?

So that would explain why you’re always horny! How so?

Because you want kids! Oh Jesus. Please tell me you’re not going the biological determinism route with this; you know my feelings on that.

It’s the truth, ain’t it? What? My sex drive must somehow be an evolutionary directive, with the sole purpose to procreate?

Yup, exactly: it would explain everything. No it fucking wouldn’t; that’s a simplistic argument and you know it.

Whatever. But look at him: you want him! Just shut up, please.

Go and get his sperm! Quickly! Before we dry up and there’s no healthy eggs left!!! Look ovaries, I’ve had enough of this. I’m going home for a wank, and when I’ve climaxed, I can tell you that the thought of having this bloke’s children will be just a distant memory. So ditch that thought right now.

OK. Maybe he’s not the one..Speak to you again next month then. Yes, unfortunately it would seem so…

Do women really think like this? Most definitely.

First, women do experience sexual cravings like this, which range from moderate to raging depending on the time of the month and how long it’s been since she’s had sex. Of course, they will never tell you this outright, so it’s hard for guys who aren’t sexually experienced to realize just how much women want sex.

If you’re struggling with sexual confidence right now, let me as you something. Do you really know just how much women want to have sex with you? I mean, do you really know? I don’t mean in a mindless “women-want-sex-more-than-men-and-that’s-the-party-line” type of way. I mean, are you aware that women who you don’t know stare at you every day and fantasize about you ripping their clothes off and fucking them from behind? Because they are. And if that seems far-fetched to you, then guess what…you don’t have sexual confidence. Yet.

There’s another interesting thing that you should take away from this blog entry though, and that is the sex drive of women is fused with their subconscious desire to become pregnant. It is completely illogical — even when she absolutely, positively does not want to have children, women will often still have the desire to be impregnated. She can’t help it — the thought of her turns her on. Just the same as any other sexual desire, male or female, it cannot be suppressed with the logical mind.

This can be both very dangerous, and can present great sexual opportunities. It’s dangerous because this desire of women can cause her to subconsciously “forget” to take her birth control. I say subconsciously because this will not be something she does to create drama or to be deceitful — women who are otherwise great people will often do this, just because of the subconscious desire they have to become impregnated.

This is why I tell guys to never trust oral birth control. It is too easily forgotten or screwed up — it is unrealistic to expect a woman to take a pill at the same exact time every day. If your woman is currently on birth control, get her to switch to a more reliable alternative such as the shot or the Nuva-ring.

However, we can also use these desires of women to our advantage. Although it sounds like something that would completely scare women and would not be a turn-on at all, the Impregnation Fantasy (one of my sexual fantasies) is actually a huge turn on for many women. Especially if the girl you are having sex with is in love with you, telling her that you are going to cum inside her and get her pregnant with her babies will cause her to go crazy.

The reason why I like the previous post by Girl with A One Track Mind is that it shed a lot of light between the inner conflict women have between their biological instincts, which tell them to get impregnated, and their conscious mind, which is usually in revolt against the thought. It should help you understand:

1. Why I never trust oral birth control

2. Why the Impregnation Fantasy is a turn-on for women, and

3. Just how much women want sex

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