QUESTION FROM A READER
Dan,
I bought your book and loved it, and am thinking about attending a Sexual Confidence Bootcamp one day. I do have a question though..from your experience with women and with female instructors, what is the dirty talk/emotional talk/bedroom talk thing that they like the most?
A.J.
What is the thing that they like the most? That’s hard to say. Women like many aspects of both dirty talk and emotional talk.
At times, women love the Dominance that dirty talk can provide. At times, all women love to be treated like your sexual property in the bedroom, like they belong to you. She wants to feel your strong masculine control over her — this is very exciting to her.
But at other times, she wants the strong feelings that emotional talk can provide. She wants the roller-coaster ride of extreme positive and negative emotions that can make sex a thousand times more intense. She wants to be consumed with passion for you, and for you to be consumed with passion for her.
However, I’d say that THE thing that excites women most is not when you either dirty talk or emotional talk alone. It’s when you can seamlessly combine the two, and excite her with both Dominance and Emotion at the same time.
I can remember at the Boston Sexual Confidence Bootcamp, one of our exercises showed this very clearly to the students. To push our comfort zones, we were having a contest to see who could excite April, one of our instructors, the most with their dirty/emotional talk. The first few students tried dirty talk and emotional talk individually. Her reaction to both of them was fairly positive.
But then, the third student came up, and he did something different. He did some great dirty talk, but then after he said it all, he looked her in the eye and said “but I really care about you.”
And she just lit up. Everybody in the room could immediately tell how effective combining dirty talk and emotional talk was. The third student won the contest.
And in my own personal sex life, I’ve noticed this phenomenon as well. Whenever I try dirty talk or emotional talk alone, it excites the girl and gets a good reaction. But when I combine them, screaming orgasms ensue.
There are three different ways that you can combine dirty talk and emotional talk in the bedroom. One of them is to get her so aroused, she doesn’t notice any logical incongruities in what you’re saying.
If you get a girl on the brink of an orgasm, it doesn’t matter if what you’re saying makes any logical sense at all. She’s not hearing your words, all that matters to her is that you’re giving her both Dominance and Emotion at the same time.
Just get her in that state of extreme sexual pleasure, and use your best dirty talk and emotional talk at the same time. You can alternately call her your personal slut and then in the next sentence tell her how much you love her. When she’s that turned on, she’ll love it.
And of course, if you want to know exactly how to combine dirty talk and emotional talk in a way that a woman is guaranteed to love, you need to check out The Sex God Method. You’ll learn exactly how to talk dirty to a woman in a way so that she won’t get offended, and how to talk emotionally to her without sounding like a wuss.
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And while it’s absolutely necessary to know how to excite a woman with dirty talk and emotional talk…knowing is less than half the battle. Dirty talk, emotional talk, and many other incredibly effective sexual techniques also requires a lot of balls to pull off. You need a lot of Sexual Confidence.
If you don’t have this Sexual Confidence now, where do you think it’s going to come from? Do you think it will magically spring out of thin air, and just infuse itself into you suddenly one day?
If you think that, let me give you a clue: it won’t. If you don’t take action now, nothing will ever change. You will have to live with your lack of Sexual Confidence — for the rest of your life.
It doesn’t have to be this way though. I designed The Sexual Confidence Bootcamp specifically to give men the Sexual Confidence to become great lovers. You’ll hear direct from me exactly what a woman wants in bed, and then you’ll be taken through my patented series of exercises with my female instructors. These exercises are absolutely guaranteed to improve your Sexual Confidence, or your money will be refunded in full.
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I would have to agree. Combining dirty talk and emotional talk would be wonderful!!!!
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