QUESTION FROM A READER:

Hey Dan,

I’m interested in helping to improve my girl’s sexual vibe. I can’t get enough of her, but she has some insecurities about her attractiveness that could hinder her (our) sexual progress. Will great sex alone have the same effect on a girl’s sexual vibe that it has on a guy’s?

Zach

MY RESPONSE:

This brings up a really great point. Men aren’t the only ones that need Sexual Confidence!

Although most men don’t realize it, women often have their own set of sexual insecurities that they have to deal with in bed. If left unchecked, these insecurities can cause some serious damage to your sex life.

And I mean serious. As in, NOTHING you do in bed will work, even if you are doing EVERYTHING ELSE right.

Why is this? Remember, the Four Elements of The Sex God Method — Dominance, Emotion, Variety, and Immersion. If a woman has persistent sexual insecurities, she’ll have very low Immersion. She’ll have trouble living in the moment of sexual pleasure, and thus won’t have great orgasms.

So, this is something that you must overcome if you want to have great sex and a happy relationship.

There are three things that you must know if your girl has sexual insecurities:

1. Realize that this may be a chronic problem — despite all your best efforts, this girl may never be able to have great sex.

What, I don’t have the magic bullet that will solve your problems instantly 110% of the time?!? Sorry, but no.

Although with great sex and other techniques you can TREMENDOUSLY increase the Sexual Confidence of most women, there are a very small minority of them that are just too damaged sexually to be open to them. For these women, you can tell them how sexually attractive you find them, and they won’t believe you. You can try to have great sex with them, but they will shut down all their sexual arousal because of their insecurities.

And it is not just unattractive or even average-looking women that have these insecurities. These hyper-insecure women are sometimes very good looking, but yet are still hopelessly insecure.

If you do the techniques below right and you still don’t see any improvement in your girl, consider that she may be one of these women. In this case, no matter how good she looks, she won’t be able to please you sexually. You should find another woman who is not so burdened with insecurities — you cannot help her, and she will only bring you down.

However, keep in mind that the percentage of women who are like this is VERY VERY SMALL. The VAST MAJORITY of women have some insecurities, but these can be reduced and even eliminated through great sex and reassurance.

2. Provide her with constant, GENUINE reassurance of how sexually attractive you find her.

If your girl is having sexual insecurities, often it is because she never hears from guys how sexually attractive they find her. Oftentimes, even when a guy finds a girl sexually attractive, she will assume that he does not unless he vocalizes it.

If you sense your girl has sexual insecurities, or is inexperienced and shy, you should always be very vocal about how much she turns you on. Dirty and emotional talk emphasizing this will be very effective, because it will both excite her and allow her to relax at the same time. For example, saying something like “I love being inside you baby, I’ve been thinking about fucking you all day,” will be very effective with a girl who needs reassurance.

But here’s the thing: EVERYTHING that you say to her must be genuine. It is actually more important that you be completely genuine in telling her how much she turns you on than that you be telling her this all the time. Don’t say so much what you think will “sound good,” say what you actually feel about her. These compliments will be truly appreciated. Fake compliments, on the other hand, she will see through. Not only this, but they will cast suspicion on everything else that you tell her.

Also — temporarily tone down any dirty talk that an insecure girl would interpret as degrading. For a fully sexually developed and high self-esteem woman, “you’re my dirty little slut,” will be very exciting. An insecure woman may take this the wrong way.

First, work on these sexual insecurities that she has. Then, later on, you can add in more and more dirty talk such as this.

3. Give her GREAT sex to make her feel like a Sex Goddess.

Don’t make it mediocre. Don’t make it ordinary. Don’t even make it merely good.

It has to be GREAT. The best she’s ever had. Mind-blowing.

If you can blow this girl’s mind in bed, and bring her to new heights of sexual pleasure…many of her insecurities will evaporate. What’s more, if you can make sex incredibly exciting for yourself as well…she will see this, and will feel tremendously more attractive.

Her Sexual Confidence will be tremendously improved. She will become infinitely more seductive, and start turning you on even more. Your relationship will be much happier, and your sex life will be amazing.

How do you give a woman great sex? It comes down to four things — Dominance, Emotion, Variety, and Immersion. If you can give a woman these four things, then she WILL have wild screaming orgasms every time. I guarantee it.

If you don’t know how to give Dominance, Emotion, Variety and Immersion to a woman…then you need to find out. And you need to find out NOW.

That’s why I put together The Sex God Method…a 279-page complete guide to giving women great sex using these four things. You’ll learn exactly how to give her mind-blowing sexual experiences, and make her insecurities about sexuality evaporate.

And I’m so confident in The Sex God Method that I’m offering it to you to try risk-free. If the book doesn’t REVOLUTIONIZE your sex life, you can return it for your money back anytime within 30 days, no questions asked.

You have nothing to lose, and you could drastically improve your sex life, relationship, and overall happiness.

The Sex God Method Website — Buy The Sex God Method

And if you’re really serious about improving your sex life, you need to check out the Sexual Confidence Bootcamp. My female instructors and I will drill Sexual Confidence into you…in only one day. That’s right, one day.

Don’t believe it? It’s worked before for many other men…so why shouldn’t it work for you? Check out the program at:

The Sexual Confidence Bootcamp Website