My Thoughts On Thinking

In the bedroom, analysis is always a bad idea. A woman doesn’t want a technician who is constantly collecting data and analyzing, she wants a man totally consumed with animalistic passion to ravishes her without hesitation.

But a lot of guys ask me, how can I get better and learn what works best for me if I don’t analyze?

This is very good question — you should be thinking about what works and what doesn’t in the bedroom, but in a very specific way.

When I first discovered The Sex God Method, I was incredibly excited. The pieces had finally come together — I now had a system that I could use to completely understand sex.

Afterwards though, I started making a mistake. During sex, I would start thinking “OK time for some Dominance…maybe some dirty talk would be good. Or maybe some spanking.” Even though the thought was EXACTLY RIGHT, the fact that I was having thoughts at all was EXACTLY WRONG. The first time I had sex after I discovered the Method, sex actually became worse.

And I thought, why was this? It was because the way that I went about “thinking” about sex was totally wrong. The way to “think” about sex and learn from your experiences is to think about it AFTERWARDS, not DURING sex.

This was how I discovered the Method in the first place. And it makes sense — sex is like any other art.

If I’m in a fight and I’m wrapped up in my head thinking and analyzing the whole time, I’m going to get knocked the fuck out. But if I think about what happened after the match — what worked, what didn’t, and why — I end up learning a lot.

Same thing goes for salsa dancing, or singing, or whatever. In the moment, you have to be completely thoughtless. But afterwards, you should always think about your experience so that you can learn from it.

Once I stopped thinking, my results in the bedroom SKYROCKETED. I began giving women powerful orgasms on an entirely different level, realizing the full potential of the Method in my sex life.

So: during sex, you should keep your thoughts to a minimum. The temptation once you have The Sex God Method is to analyze everything WHILE it is happening. Don’t do this. Remain as in the moment as you can during sex, and think about it AFTERWARDS. This is the best way to learn and improve.

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  1. Doc Holliday said on August 5, 2007 at 12:24 pm

    Hey Dan,

    Thanks for linking to me! Keep up the good work! The Sex God Method changed the way I view and have sex. Thanks again!

  2. Carlos Xuma said on August 5, 2007 at 2:46 pm

    I like this concept, mostly because it has application in so many other areas of interacting with women, too.

    When you’re in the moment, everything flows, and even mistakes lose their power because we’re willing to just keep rolling with it.

    I also think that it’s this initial barrier to excellence (I call it the Slump Response) where you get a little worse before you get better actually makes guys revert to their old bad habits. You have to be willing to accept a little incompetence on your way to mastery.

    Great post, man…!

    - Carlos Xuma
    http://www.datingdynamics.com

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