Something that I realized about myself in my life — I don’t consume very much entertainment anymore.

Every once in a while, I’ll watch a movie or a TV show…but I watch and listen to far less stuff purely for entertainment purposes than I used to.

But this isn’t to say that I’m working on Sex God Method or doing martial arts or having sex all the time. While I am doing these things most of the time, there is still a certain amount of downtime.

I used to fill this downtime with TV, video games, etc. But now though, self-improvement materials have largely taken the place of entertainment in my life. On my commute to and from work, I typically listen to business self-improvement CDs. If I need a short break throughout the day, I’ll pop in a DVD of a social improvement seminar. If my girlfriend isn’t over, I’ll read a self-improvement book for a few minutes before falling asleep at night.

This didn’t happen overnight though — only recently did I realize how much self-improvement material and how little entertainment I now consume. I spend thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours on self-improvement every year. And I believe that it is all worth it.

It is my real education. I’ve had an academic education as well… and while I don’t regret it, it didn’t teach me many of the things I needed to know about life. While it will make you sound smart to know how a proton works or how to caculate a derivative, I’ve found that these things don’t make any difference to your life unless you’re directly working with them.

I would much rather have learned how to walk into a room full of strangers and walk out having made ten friends. I would much rather have learned how to make a living doing something I love rather than something that meaningless.

I would definitely MUCH rather have learned how to give women orgasms back when I didn’t know how.

But of course, they don’t teach you this in school. They just turn you loose on the real world, and expect you to know these things naturally.

Like many other people, I didn’t. I had to figure them out on my own…and I found self-improvement resources a TREMENDOUS help in doing this.

There are some great social self-improvement coaches out there…Vin DiCarlo for one. While it still took a lot of work on my part, his coaching cut years off my learning curve in learning how to pickup women and be socially successful.

There are also some great financial and business self-improvement materials out there. But as much as I tried when I was first starting to learn, I didn’t find any spectacular self-improvement materials out there for sex. There were a few guides that showed me the anatomical basics, but other than that, there was nothing good.

In fact, as I learned what REALLY worked in bed the hard way, I began to see that there was actually a ton of MISINFORMATION out there. And this really pissed me off.

Because why should there not be any good sexual self-improvement materials out there? Because after all, I think it’s the MOST important area of my life. I believe I could live with a mediocre financial and social situation…but if I was still having mind-blowing sex every day, I would still be happy. I would be MORE happy if I had everything down…but I could not be happy without the sex. I think most people are like this.

This is why I wrote the book. I saw what was out there, and I thought “I can write something way better than this.”

Self-improvement materials combined with hard work have really changed my life in a way academic education never could. So to everyone reading this article, let me ask you something:

How much of your resources (time, money, energy, etc.) are you devoting to self-improvement each day?

And more specificically for this blog — how much time are you devoting to arguably the MOST IMPORTANT area of your life — sexual self-improvement?

Is it none? For most guys it is, and to me this is absolutely braindead. I’m not saying everyone has to use my stuff — if you find other sexual self-improvement materials that work well for you, you’re on the right track whether or not you eventually decide to pick up any of my products. But if you’re doing nothing to help you improve your sex life… you’re making a big mistake.

Because let me tell you something: in life, nobody gives you extra credit for doing things the hard way. It seems like they should, but nobody does.

If you “do things the hard way” financially, and go through the grueling process of figuring EVERYTHING out on your own, they don’t add any extra money to the deposit when you go to the bank. If you “figure things out on your own” in the social arena, your friends won’t like you any more than if you learned social skills from a teacher. And if you go through the frustrating and painful process of figuring out how to give women orgasms in bed through endless trial and error, she won’t cum any harder than if you learned it from a teacher and applied it.

I know…because I had to do it the hard way.

My goal with The Sex God Method is for nobody to ever have to do things the hard way in bed again. That anyone with the motivation can pick up my book for $25, and benefit from my YEARS of trial and error. And then later on down the road, guys can pick up my other products if they really want to reach a mastery level. But anyone who wants to can get this area of their live HANDLED for a few bucks and some basic motivation.

And that’s my vision for the future. Every guy knowing what women want in bed, and not having to figure it out over the course of years. Every couple having mind-blowing, break-the-bed sex, and having happier and stronger relationships as a results. And every woman being able to find a guy who REALLY turns her on, and not having to sift through an endless horde of losers first.

That’s what keeps me going.

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