A woman’s orgasms are not always like ours. A man’s orgasms are individual and distinct — it is clear when they happen and they are easy to count. It is a buildup to a peak of pleasure, and then a quick slide down to a non-sexual state.

A woman’s orgasms, on the other hand, are different. Sometimes she may have individual, distinct orgasms…but especially if she’s already had a few orgasms, women’s orgasms tend to be much more indistinct and blended together.

This was something that amazed me when I first learned it. I thought that women could only cum like us, and then I would have to build them all the way back up to orgasmic levels of pleasure again before she could have another orgasm. But then, I learned that after cumming a few times, women don’t “come down” from their orgasms. Eventually, if you make them cum enough, women will reach a state where they continuously alternate between orgasmic levels of pleasure, and pleasure just below orgasm. I wrote a chapter in The Sex God Method about this — I call it The Continuously Orgasmic State.

The mindblowing levels of pleasure you can acheive when your woman is in The Continuously Orgasmic State are amazing. You can keep her in this state for up to half an hour, where she is continuously cumming or on the verge of cumming. There is no interruption to the pleasure, and you lose yourself completely to each other. It is physically exhausting and as intense as getting hit by a truck, except it feels amazing and utterly fulfilling.

I just read this post by Dirty Filthy Princess, which I think is a great description of The Continuously Orgasmic State:

In the meantime, here’s what happens to me. My first orgasm is typically the most difficult to reach. It takes time and effort. While it all feels good, and I spend a lot of time moaning, I don’t count it as an actual orgasm until that explosive feeling that takes over my whole body. It’s hard to describe, but it’s an unmistakable feeling.

After that first orgasm, I usually orgasm much more easily and quickly. They just roll out of my body, one right after another. Some are more intense than others.

Shay from the S Spot describes what’s probably happening to me in this post about multiple orgasms. According to her answer to a reader question, researchers videotaped a woman having multiple orgasms in a clinical setting.

In this post Shay says:

“After going through around 30 male assistants and 50 orgasms, the female participant was said to have been tired but still ready for more.”

She goes on to say:

“This feat may have been achieved through skimming. Orgasms are usually described as peaks and valleys of waves. Women who are able to achieve multiple orgasms often skim the surface of these waves; the peaks and valleys they experience will not be as extreme but it will still feel very good.”

That sounds a lot like what happens to me. Sometimes it can be difficult to tell when one orgasm ends and another starts. Other times the change in feeling is very distinct and intense. Sometimes that first orgasm is the most intense and the rest just feel really good. Other times there’s this monster orgasm lurking in there that I have no idea is coming. The only thing that is consistent is the lack of consistency - it’s always a surprise what’s going to happen next.

You can read the full post here

I’m always amazed by how closely what DFP writes about matches my own sexual experiences and what I teach, and by how well she describes it. Again, I encourage everyone reading my blog to also read Dirty Filthy Princess — it’s like a secret window into how women experience sex, and what they really desire sexually. And being in touch with this goes a long ways towards making you a great lover.