As The Sex God Method gains popularity, I’m slowing starting to have more and more guys refer to me as a sex “guru.” And let me tell you, nothing could be further from the truth.Am I enjoying an amazing sex life right now? Yes.

Did I dramatically improve my sex life, going from being a nerd to having mindblowing sex all the time? Yes.

Have I accomplished some great things with the book? With The Sexual Confidence Bootcamp? Have I really changed guys’ lives?

Yes, yes, and yes.

But still, I discourage people from thinking of me as a sex “guru.” And here’s why:

If you think of someone as a “guru” or a “legend” or a “celebrity” or whatever, you are subconsciously telling yourself that whatever they have is far out of reach for you. That their results are almost supernatural, and you’ll have to settle for the results that ordinary mortals get.

And needless to say, this is a terrible mindset.

One of the reasons why I am so passionate about The Sex God Method is that I feel it is a great equalizer. Some guys were born with less Sexual Confidence, or a smaller cock, or without good looks, or whatever. For these guys previously, they just had to settle for mediocre sex lives. They couldn’t compete with guys who were naturally gifted.

But with The Sex God Method, now these guys have a step by step system to follow to make them great in bed. ANYBODY can follow the system — you don’t need any natural gifts. And a man well versed in the system and easily outperform anybody who is merely naturally talented.

This is also one of the reasons why I am so passionate about martial arts. They are systems that anybody can follow to become a great fighter. Those who are well versed in the system (black belts, or equivalents) can EASILY demolish unskilled opponents. Even if they are bigger, stronger, faster, more naturally talented. The system trumps natural talent every time.

This is my vision for Sex God Method. To make men black belts in sex, so that their knowledge of the system will make them better lovers than any other man, regardless of how good looking or naturally sexually savvy he is.

There is nothing special about me. I was not ordained by God, or certified by the President, or born with superpowers. I am just an average guy. An average guy who used an extraordinary SYSTEM to achieve a great sex and relationship life.

And you’ll find that this is the case with almost all extraordinarily successful people. In fact, much of the value of mentors and teachers is that you can see with your own eyes that the people achieving these great results are REAL, ACTUAL HUMAN BEINGS.

This was incredibly valuable to me when I was learning how to pick up and date women. Vin DiCarlo, my mentor at the time, had an incredible relationship reality. Every time I saw him, he was with a new beautiful girlfriend. At one time, he had something like six girlfriends — at the same time.

Now, this isn’t the lifestyle that I want now, nor the lifestyle that he wants anymore. However, at the time it was truly earth-shaking to me to see that this was possible.

But here was what really hit me emotionally: there was nothing special about Vin. He didn’t have superpowers. He wasn’t good looking. He didn’t have the physique of Adonis. In short, he was a regular guy. Naturally, there was really no difference between him and me. If anything, I probably had MORE natural gifts then him.

He was just an ordinary guy following an extraordinary system.

So I thought, fuck. If this guy can do it, WHY CAN’T I? He’s just a dude. In terms of natural gifts, he is THE SAME AS ME. If I follow THE SAME SYSTEM as he does, I will get THE SAME RESULTS.

And I did follow that same system. And I did get the same results.

And this is the vision that I have for Sex God Method. To have guys everywhere know that ANYBODY can use it as a system for becoming great in bed. To know that you don’t have to be a “guru” or have superpowers to use it. That you can be just an ordinary guy.

People will eventually forget who I am. And that’s OK, because my own results really aren’t that important in the grand scheme of things. It is the SYSTEM that is important. The Method. This is what everyone will remember.

So, don’t call me a sex guru. Because in terms of natural gifts, you probably have more than me. If you use the same system, you will get the same results as I do.

Simple as that.