It’s been said that happiness comes from within, not from without. That external things will not make you happy, and that you are the only one that can make yourself happy.

And I think that is true. However, I think that whoever said that forgot about one thing.

There are some people who are born with a naturally good internal temperament. Others, like myself, have to develop it.

But how is this internal happiness developed? Is it by sitting around and ruminating on how you can become more happy? Is it by philosophizing and thinking?

My answer to this is undoubtedly not. It’s one of the funny things about life — the most intelligent people who think about things the most are often the most unhappy. I know that I was.

What I found which really makes me happy on the inside is working for and getting the EXTERNAL things I truly need. What happens when I do this is that it actually changes the person I am on the inside.

Now, by “the things I truly need” I don’t mean the superficial things which most people think they need. For example, it would be nice to have a giant plasma TV, but it really wouldn’t change me as a person for the better. If anything, it might change me internally for the worse, because I’d spend more time watching TV and less time working for the things I truly need.

The thing I truly need the most is passion. Whatever I am doing, I have to be deeply passionate about it. Otherwise, I feel as if I am dead.

The purest and most intense form of passion for me is sex. Nothing else can compare to sex in terms of the intensity of feeling. No drugs, no thrill rides, no other experience can even come close.

But I need passion in every other area of my life as well. I could never work a 9-5 job in a cubicle, working on things which I didn’t care about. No matter how much I was paid. I would have no passion, and would feel emotionally dead on the inside. I would rather commit suicide and actually be dead.

That’s why I’m so fanatically committed to Sex God Method. It’s something I’m almost as passionate about as sex itself — awakening other guys to how amazing sex can be, and improving their lives by showing them how they can get it. This, to me, is something worth doing. Something that makes a difference. Something that I can be really, truly passionate about.

Even my hobbies are animated by passion. I’m a devoted mixed martial artist — if you’ve seen UFC, this is the professional level of the sport that I am training for. When I’m training, I’ll push myself so hard that I feel dizzy and nauseous at the end. I’ll spar heavy with guys bigger and better than me, and get punched in the head about 50 times. And I love it. I have passion for the sport, which motivates me to work hard and makes me truly happy when I make progress.

Some people think I am crazy. But I think anybody who does not live their life with passion is crazy. Because I did this once, and I know how it can eat at you. It drains you slowly, day by day. Slowly, the person you are on the inside changes. You become someone who has less hope, less passion, less happiness.

I will never go back to this. I will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to fulfill my passions. Because I know, by doing this I actually CHANGE who I am on the inside. I become the type of person who is happier with life.

Right now, I am happy with my life. And what’s more, even if you take away everything I have accomplished, I would still be happy. If you burned down my office, destroyed every copy of The Sex God Method, took away my girlfriend and took away all my martial arts skills I would still be happy. Temporarily of course it would hurt, but in the long term I would still be a happy person. And I would start to work rebuilding them all again.

When you become truly dedicated to self-improvement, in fact, I think that your happiness comes just as much from knowing that you are on the right path to fulfilling your passions, and from actually fulfilling them.

And this is all something external. Some philosophers may say that this really has nothing to do with my happiness, and it all comes from the inside. I don’t think so.

What I think is that by changing my external reality — or even by setting myself on the path to change it — I change who I am INTERNALLY. And this is what makes me truly happy. And I believe it can for you as well.

So: if you’re feeling depressed and you don’t know why, don’t look for an internal solution. Look for an EXTERNAL solution — doing what you are passionate about. Fulfilling your deepest core desires, or even just setting yourself on the path to fulfill them. I believe that this is the best way to feel better about yourself, and to become a better person.

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