Unlike other people’s systems of relationship management, mine relies heavily on sex. The basic premise is that if you give a girl enough mindblowing sex, she will become addicted and will not be able to leave. She will then accept any terms for the relationship that you set.

Basically, the goal of your relationship game is to keep the girl around long enough so that she can get addicted to the great sex. There’s many specific things that you should know to do this, which I talk about in the book, but that’s the general gist of it.

APB — I agree, a lot of new guys experimenting with indirect game always think that showing interest is bad. This is why they don’t get laid.

Glad to see you’re spreading the good word to these guys and helping them out.

Excellent article by the way — one of the best I’ve read in a long time.

-Dan

A discussion just started up on the Dallas board about compliments. Most approached it as a back-handed compliment (ie neg).

Which is fine, but I had to raise the point of Dimitri/Woodhaven’s excellent article on “Dual Value Raising” through compliments.

They both work and both have their places though I have my own thoughts on way certain people are more attracted to the neg approach game versus compliment approach game.

Anyways, glad to see you reinstated comments!

i like your posts Dan, especially your field reports. very good stuff. your in-depth analysis and writing style kinda reminds me of neil strauss. an updated natural game version of him =)

i do have one question though. How do you keep up your polyamorous lifestyle? Im a student and yet just have time for one girl.. Do your gfs all know about each other? How do you break it down to them that they aren’t exclusive? How do you maintain them?

Would love to hear your take on this

Cheers