Usually in pickup, to play solid game you’ll need to see a girl for a few hours at least to fuck her. You’ll have to go through all the steps — most of the time.

Sometimes though, you don’t. Sometimes shit moves real fast, and all you have to do is be comfortable moving that fast. To have the balls to drag her out of the club and do her doggy style when she says “fuck me” within ten minutes of meeting her.

Sadly, inexperienced guys often screw stuff like this up because they are so startled that it actually happened. If nothing like this has ever happened to you, realize that some day it will. If you want to capitalize on it when that day comes, the key is to not hesitate or act surprised, and to have the balls to just go for it.

Below is an example FR written by MagicNumber of what I’m talking about. He’s not alone in this — many guys screw up easy lays just because they’re so surprised that they’re that easy. Fortunately for him, now he knows that shit moves fast sometimes, and the next time he’ll get the lay.

Alright, so here’s the situ. I’m a virgin, no sexual experience of any kind. Over the years of doing this stuff I’ve been becoming more and more calibrated and comfortable around women and people in general (I was a social retard all through high school). And up until now I haden’t really had any “results”.

Until now.

Ok, so I’m a freshman at a local community college (its a commuter college, no dorms :/) and I’ve been playing around with this stuff on campus. There’s this HB6 in one of my classes and I was just playing around with her. She’s got a cool personality and shit, but she’s kinda fat, and well, doesn’t stimulate me that much.

Well she got really into me and we started flirting and shit, I escalated, and SOIed and all that pretty well. No real routines, just “natural game” and calibration. I’m not that attracted to her physically but I figured it’d be good practice seeing how far I could take it.

Well, for awhile she had been saying she wanted to give me head, almost half-jokingly. I wasn’t sure if she was serious or not, so I just flirted back thinking I should at least try to build some sexual tension. She responded quite well.

So, after a week or so of this I run into her in the library and suggest we should go out to get some coffee at the dunkins across the street. She’s all excited and agrees.

We end up taking her car :/ and after busting on her a bit we end up back in the school parking lot, just talking and drinking coffee. She starts talking about how she’s in this relationship that’s she’s unsatisfied with and etc.

Then she offers to give me head right there in the parking lot. This time I know she’s serious. Now note, we have like 10 minutes before the next class and its broad daylight with people walking around. Not to mention I’m completely flacid (meh!)

So.. I ultimately chicken out by acting all cool and C&F and I end up kicking myself afterward.

She still seems pretty into me and I have other girls I’m playing around with. But idk.

Do you think I’ve ruined things by showing insecurity? I was kind of shocked that I actually got that offer plus I’m not that attracted to her physically. Has this ever happened to any of you?

Eh, well I’ll keep you posted on this almost-lay. As well as other FRs in the future.

- MagicNumber