The Importance of Logistics in Pickup

A frequently overlooked factor in pickup is logistics. Logistics are very important for pickup, in fact, they are the aspect of the interaction that you should spend the most time planning out.

What you say and the specifics of what you do to attract her — this should all be spontaneous. But you should always have a solid logistical plan in place when you go out or go on a day2. Don’t just go out and hope good things will happen with logisitics — because most of the time, they won’t.

For example, I have a logistical plan that I use on all my dates. I invite the girl to cook food with me at my apartment, and I meet her at a local ethnic supermarket. We buy food together, then we pick up bubble tea together at a place nearby. Then, we go back to my house and cook the food. Afterwards, we clean up together, and I bring her to my room to watch a movie.

I make sure that stuff is piled on the couch and my chair, so that we both have to lay down on the bed to watch the movie. I pop one in, turn the lights off, and go under the blankets with her.

Now, I’m cuddling under the blankets in the dark with her — it’s easy to escalate to sex from here.

This is my logistical plan. Come up with your own based on what you have around you and what your interests are. What you want in your logistics plan is:

-Multiple Activities. It makes it seem like you’ve spent more time together, and makes things more fun.

-A smooth progression to isolation. The logistical plan should lead smoothly and naturally to isolation and sex. You should always know the next step in the plan, and know how you’re going to get her isolated at your place.

Having a plan like this will improve your game tremendously. It’ll free you from having to worry about this stuff, and let you concentrate on enjoying the interaction.

Having said that, don’t be too dependent on your plan. You should always have a plan, but if a better opportunity comes up, go with it. For example, if I meet a girl in a club and she’s down to go to my place right away, I’m not going to be like “No, sorry, we’ve got three more steps in the plan before we get there…”

Sinn has a good post on his blog about logistics that you should check out. Read it here:

Whenever I think of the main things that guys should work on in order to be more successful with women, I alwasy forget to mention logistics.
If you want to get a same night lay, logistics are especially important.

Last night The Don and I pulled a 2 set from the standard with an assist from AJax.

I made a crucial mistake that lead to me getting LMR. I left my house keys in my car.

So that mean that we had to pull to The Don’s house 20 minutes away. This also meant that I couldn’t isolate my girl. I now had to remain with the others rather than just being able to pull to my place.

Logistics are one element of the game that is entirely under your control.

That means that if you are trying to get a girl home that night, your place needs to be immaculately clean, should have some alcohol or other party accessories, and should have a reason to bring the girls there. This also means that you should make sure you always have condoms in case you have to go to her place.

When I was in Pho for my last bootcamp the night before Rahn and I pulled a 2 set back to a guy friend’s place where thanks to me having a condom, I was able to have sex with the girl on the couch.

Another thing to mention about logistics, if you are trying to bounce, you should bring up where you are bouncing to in the first 25 minutes. This is called seeding the bounce. Then you need to bring it up again as you are getting ready to leave.

Logistics extends to Day2s as well.

You need to make sure that the girl either meets you at your house, her house, or at a comfort location near your place or hers.

The reason to do this is to make sure that you can easily get her back to a seduction location when you have built sufficient comfort.

Also make sure that you have a reason to have her come back to your house. A book, a movie clip, a hookah, etc. This is to avoid having her come upstairs with no pretense which will undoubtably trigger her ASD.

So in conclusion make sure that every night you go out, you have condoms, a plan as to where you will bounce girls and your place ready for partying.

S

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