QUESTION FROM A READER:

Hello Dan,

A bit of background info. I’m 21 years old, and a student at a big university. I stumbled across your site about a year ago, and it helped me a ton.

I just bought your Sex God Method book, and I’ve gotta say it totally blew my mind. It blew my girlfriend’s too when I used your stuff on her! Especially the dirty talk/manhandling Dominance stuff, I had always been too chicken to use this stuff in the past, but I decided to try it after I read your book. She loved it!

Now, I was wondering what your perspective is on this: how long should I wait before I have sex with a girl for the first time if I want an ongoing relationship with her? I’ve heard different things, from seven hours, to three dates, to just do it as fast as possible, so I’d like to hear your perspective on this.

Thanks,

Argyn

Thank you for the kind words, and congratulations on your success thus far. To answer your question…

**IF YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL, YOU SHOULD HAVE SEX WITH HER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. DO NOT WAIT SEVEN HOURS, OR THREE DATES, OR WHATEVER. DO IT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.**

Why is this?

The reasoning behind the “Wait X amount of time” school of thought is that if you have sex with her too soon, she’ll put you in the “one night stand” category and won’t come back for more. She might be ashamed that she had sex with you so fast, thus not answer your phone calls or meet up with you again.

And, it will oftentimes actually happen that a girl will have sex with a guy fast, and then never see him again. But…THIS ONLY HAPPENS TO GUYS WHO AREN’T GOOD IN BED.

The real reason why these girls aren’t coming back isn’t because they’ve put you in a certain “category.” It is because the sex was mediocre, and she has little incentive to come back for more. Especially when she’s like most attractive women, and has access to BETTER sex anytime she wants.

If you can pleasure a woman well the first time, I guarantee she’ll be coming back for more regardless of how quick it happened. My primary girlfriend of almost two years I hooked up with on our first date, after spending only about two hours with her. My most recently converted girlfriend I had sex with after only about five hours of face time. They are eager to see me again because they KNOW that I can give them what they need in bed, and this creates powerful attraction.

Where else, if I had not had sex with them things would still be up in the air. Maybe she would have met up with me again…but maybe not. By not having sex with her, everything is left to chance. Oftentimes, she’ll lose interest and you’ll get lost in the shuffle of her other priorities.

If you can give her good sex though, the attraction is surefire and set in concrete. Instead of having to fight for her time, SHE will be calling YOU. She’ll be thinking of you frequently throughout her day, and probably thinking about your cock inside her while she masturbates.

So — don’t concentrate on spending a certain amount of time with a girl before you have sex with her. This is irrelevant to her decision to be in a sexual relationship with you. Instead, concentrate on making sex good for her the first time, to ensure that she comes back for more.

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Dan, your book was ridiculously amazing. The best things I learned from it:
1. That women love dominance, and ways to give it to them without offending them

2. That you don’t have to be logical in bed, you just have to stimulate her emotions

3. How to relax and let go of all thoughts and enjoy the experience.

My sex life is much better thanks to you. I’m looking forward to any video or audio products that you might come out with in the future.

Jorge N.

…your book is way better than every sex book I’ve ever read. The rest, while they weren’t bad, were like “yeah, that’s cool…” but they never actually made any real difference in my sex life. The book provided lots of real, practical stuff that I can actually use — I can already see the difference it’s made.

David

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