Comments on: When To Have Sex With Her on a Date http://sexgodmethod.com/blog/sex/219/sex-blitz-12-when-to-have-sex-with-her-on-a-date/ Sex and dating advice for men by the author of The Sex Revolution Handbook Tue, 09 Mar 2010 17:10:45 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Dave http://sexgodmethod.com/blog/sex/219/sex-blitz-12-when-to-have-sex-with-her-on-a-date/comment-page-1/#comment-36050 Dave Fri, 26 Oct 2007 19:58:50 +0000 http://sexrevolutionblog.com/?p=219#comment-36050 I think it sort of depends. Obviously if the girl gets the impression that you're gunning for the sex as soon as possible, she's going to resist, and go into it thinking "this is only about the sex". And it is still a good chance that even though you blow her mind in bed after knowing her for a couple of hours, she's still going to never want to see you. To have sex after knowing someone for a couple of hours is considered slutty, and a woman has to reconcile having been a slut with society's expectations, therefore she wants to disappear as far as you're concerned. If it's a girl that you work with, or a close friend of a friend or something, and you know that you'll be in consistent contact, you can work it more gradually and let the tension build slowly. She'll have lots of time to fantasize about what the sex would be like with you, and it will build. When it finally happens, it will be explosive and emotional and you'll shatter her expectations. Your dirty talk will mean more because she knows you well in other contexts. She'll find more pleasure in being possessed by you, because she sees you a lot and has fantasized about it. I think it sort of depends. Obviously if the girl gets the impression that you’re gunning for the sex as soon as possible, she’s going to resist, and go into it thinking “this is only about the sex”. And it is still a good chance that even though you blow her mind in bed after knowing her for a couple of hours, she’s still going to never want to see you. To have sex after knowing someone for a couple of hours is considered slutty, and a woman has to reconcile having been a slut with society’s expectations, therefore she wants to disappear as far as you’re concerned.

If it’s a girl that you work with, or a close friend of a friend or something, and you know that you’ll be in consistent contact, you can work it more gradually and let the tension build slowly. She’ll have lots of time to fantasize about what the sex would be like with you, and it will build. When it finally happens, it will be explosive and emotional and you’ll shatter her expectations. Your dirty talk will mean more because she knows you well in other contexts. She’ll find more pleasure in being possessed by you, because she sees you a lot and has fantasized about it.

]]> By: stan http://sexgodmethod.com/blog/sex/219/sex-blitz-12-when-to-have-sex-with-her-on-a-date/comment-page-1/#comment-11834 stan Mon, 19 Feb 2007 22:52:45 +0000 http://sexrevolutionblog.com/?p=219#comment-11834 This comment has absolutely nothing to do with this newspost. I just wanted to say that I've been trying to follow the community for about 3 years now. For me it was near impossible, there's so much crap and it's information overload. It took me too much time trying to keep up with the community. I said goodbye to it and started improving my life on my own. Then I found this website. Now this blog is the only thing I read. And every article is amazing. After 3 years I'm finally starting to see a little success. I'm not there yet, but I know I will be after some time. I don't know why I'm writing this. And I know this post has no structure at all or logical thoughts behind it. I just wanted to say thanks, for having this ABSOLUTELY GREAT blog and helping guys like me. This comment has absolutely nothing to do with this newspost. I just wanted to say that I’ve been trying to follow the community for about 3 years now. For me it was near impossible, there’s so much crap and it’s information overload.

It took me too much time trying to keep up with the community. I said goodbye to it and started improving my life on my own.

Then I found this website. Now this blog is the only thing I read. And every article is amazing.

After 3 years I’m finally starting to see a little success. I’m not there yet, but I know I will be after some time.

I don’t know why I’m writing this. And I know this post has no structure at all or logical thoughts behind it.

I just wanted to say thanks, for having this ABSOLUTELY GREAT blog and helping guys like me.

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